How to get your ex back, With Dignity

Hello all my name is Milton and I am (Thank God) currently happily married. But that has not always been the case, I have been, before, where you are today. Just a few days ago I was having a conversation with a couple of friends, long story short, we got on the topic of how to get your ex back, and unfortunately almost everyone had a different way to handle how to go about it. We each told our own story. It was not pretty. I decide to do some research and come up with a rule book of sorts to help others who were in the same dilemma. With that said I hope this helps some. How to get your ex back, with Dignity. Good Luck and God Bless!!!!

Have you ever wondered how to get your ex back without humiliating yourself? Well this guide will give you some tips in that area.

Steps

1. Get your head and your emotions under control. Don't run around trying to see your ex, (on purpose or by accident) calling your ex, when they say they want to be left alone, leave them alone!!!!! Instead take your deepest breath and make yourself stop.
   
2. Give yourself some quality time on your own, which means no contact whatsoever with your ex. Remember your dignity is important and you must not lower your self-esteem by doing things that are going to make you look and feel worse in the long run. This is the time when you look after you. Pamper yourself, buy yourself something, a new CD, a facial, a pedicure (especially you men)Something to focus on YOU!!
   
3. Reconnect with your family and friends. If your time has been spent with your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband then now is the time that you spend time with the other people in your life. Including yourself.
   
4. Go out and enjoy yourself and make sure you're not spending night after night at home obsessing.
   
5. After a few weeks on your own, you're ready to talk to your ex.. Call your ex and ask for a meeting.
   
6. Meet your ex somewhere neutral and public.
   
7. Explain your thoughts and feelings, without begging and crying, and if you have stuff to apologize for, then do so.
   
8. Give your ex a chance to say whatever they might want to say and listen.
   
9. Tell your ex that this time apart is and has been good for both of you. Leave without asking for a reconciliation (yet), however do not make this a closure meeting, leave an opening for future dialogue, do not push for or set another date or meeting. Thank them for the meeting tell them that you still love them and ask if it's okay to touch base down the line. (if the conversation went well they will not refuse and may even be a little surprised)
   
10. Go home and do not call for at least five days
    

Tips

• Take as much time over the first few steps as you need. Don't rush to get through them.
  
• Keep yourself busy, especially when you're doing No Contact.
  
• The more you look after yourself, your diet and your health the better you will feel and the easier it will be to make decisions that will help you hold onto your dignity.
  

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Warnings

• If there has been physical or verbal abuse in a relationship, don't attempt to rekindle it.
  
• Make sure your REALLY want your ex back. If it's about ego, forget it!
  

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